Teens

No. Therapy moves at your pace. You never have to talk about something before you feel ready. Sometimes we start with easier topics and build trust first. The goal is for therapy to feel like a safe space, not something forced.

That’s actually really common. A lot of teens feel this way at first. Part of my job is helping guide the conversation. We might talk about school, friendships, stress, family stuff, or whatever has been on your mind lately. Sometimes things come up naturally once we start talking.

Not everything. Therapy works best when you have some privacy to talk openly. I usually share general themes or progress with parents, but not the specific details of what you say.

The one exception is safety. If I believe you might hurt yourself, someone else, or if someone is hurting you, I will need to involve a parent or another trusted adult so we can make sure you are safe.

The relationship with your therapist is really important. If you don’t feel comfortable or the connection just isn’t there, it’s okay to say that. Sometimes it just means finding someone who feels like a better fit for you.

Yes. Way more teens go to therapy than people realize. A lot of people use therapy as a space to figure things out, learn how to manage stress, or get support when life feels overwhelming.

You’re definitely not the only one.

That happens more often than you might think. Sometimes parents notice that something feels hard for their child and want to make sure they have support.

Even if therapy wasn’t your idea, this is still your space. You don’t have to perform, impress anyone, or say things just because you think people want to hear them. We can start wherever you are and focus on what actually matters to you.

Sometimes teens come in unsure or even a little annoyed about being there, and that’s okay. You’re allowed to feel however you feel about it. My job isn’t to take sides. It’s to help create a space where you can talk honestly and figure things out in a way that feels useful for you.

Yes. Therapy is meant to be a conversation, not an interrogation. You’re always welcome to ask questions about how therapy works, why we’re trying certain activities, or anything you’re curious about.

Just like you’re allowed to say you’d rather not answer a question, therapists also have boundaries about what we share. If there’s something we can’t answer, we’ll explain why. The goal is to create a space built on honesty, trust, and mutual respect.

It’s a little different for everyone. Some sessions are mostly talking about what’s been going on in your life, things that feel stressful, confusing, or overwhelming. Other times we focus on learning tools that can help with things like anxiety, school stress, friendships, or communication.

Sometimes we also use more creative approaches like drawing, sand tray, or other activities that help you explore what you're feeling in ways that don’t always require the perfect words.

Therapy isn’t one specific format. It’s a space where we figure out together what’s actually helpful for you.